Alamak! Ramadhan dah hampir...

Beberapa minggu lagi Ramadhan yang ditunggu-tunggu oleh seluruh umat Islam akan tiba.. Macam mana pulak dengan persiapan kita ekk..

Ramai yang tunggu Ramadhan sebab nak pergi beli baju raya, kasut raya dan pelbagai macam lagi..Hakikatnya bukan Ramadhan yang ditunggu akan tetapi Syawal yang dinantikan..Sekarang ni pun dah banyak dah iklan-iklan yang muncul kat televisyen tentang PROMOSI SYAWAL... Ramadhan belum lagi tiba dah ingatkan syawal..

JANGAN BIASAKAN INI UNTUK MENYAMBUT RAMADHAN...

" Esok dah nak mula puasa ni..jadi hari ini kita kena makan sepuas-puasnya...sebab esok kita dah tak boleh makan camni dah.." (segala macam makanan yang dimakan)

- Apakah ini caranya untuk kita bersedia menyambut kedatangan Ramadhan? Seolah-olah tidak akan makan lagi..Sedangkan Ramadhan itu bulan barakah..yang mana terbentang luasnya pahala ibadah buat umat Islam yang mengerjakannya..

" Mak, Achik nak tido lu kejap ye..lagipun sekarang baru kul 5.30 pagi..subuh lambat lagi.."

- Ini biasa terjadi kan ?..Bersahur sememangnya adalah dituntut..Namun, masyarakat sekarang ramai yang tidur kembali selepas bersahur. Alangkah indahnya, jika kita semaikan dalam diri kita dan keluarga kita dengan membaca Al-Quran sementara menunggu waktu subuh..tak pun, sama-sama menonton tazkirah pagi di kaca TV..Biasanya, bulan ramadhan ni banyak program tazkirah terutama di waktu pagi..then, solat subuh sama-sama..confirm subuh tak kan terbabas punye..

" Malam ni, kat surau kampung sebelah..ada nasi hujan panas dan pelbagai jenis kuih tau yang akan dihidangkan selepas solat terawih..apa kata malam ni kita solat kat sana..kenyang perut t.."

- Satu-satunya bulan yang dikerjakan solat terawih padanya, seolah-olah dilupakan..disebabkan niat yang mana tanpa kita sedari itu..Nak pergi solat terawih tu dah cantik dah niatnye..tut tut..alamak makanan rupanye.. (^____^) bersama kita ubahkan ye..Jangan biarkan tujuan untuk kita ke masjid atau surau bukan untuk beribadah akan tetapi untuk "berpesta" makan..



Tak Sabar Menanti Hadirnya RAMADHAN...
* jangan nak tunggu Ramadhan je baru nak mendekatkan diri pada Allah..tapi lakukannya setiap masa, saat dan ketika susah mahupun senang (^__^)

Moga Ramadhan yang bakal menjelang nanti menjadi titik perubahan ke arah yang lebih baik buat kita...

Senyap...Diam...Fikir....Buat  (^___^)

TENGGELAM DI LAUTAN SEPI..TIMBUL MENCARI IDENTITI

Alhamdulillah..syukur pada Allah yang meminjamkan nafas ini buat seketika..udah lamo bebeno sepi dari mngisi N3.. (^_____^)

Tengok kawan2 y lain, makin mgaktifkan diri..ada je N3 y ingin dikongsikan...tpi kiteeeee (^____^) senyum je dpt..


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sahabat (S) :  "Salam sayang buat SYID... mg kita bleh berhubung disini for everthings.. reply or not, it's not important.. "

Air mata gugur melihat mesej yang di hantar oleh seorang sahabat..Allah sudah bertahun tidak bertemu..

Ya Allah, kerana-MU kami dipertemukan, dan kerana-MU jualah kami jauh terpisah..Moga ia mendapat keberkatan dari-MU di setiap nafas rindu ini..Dalam meniti sebuah kehidupan demi mencari bekalan buat masa hadapan..

sahabat (Y)  :


Aku (D)  : : " Salam sayang juga buat SYID y dirindui n y tramat dirindui..sungguh sunyi hati ini tnpa anda sume     di sisi.."

Itulah ungkapan yang mampu dikeluarkan di saat hati dicekam ombak rindu..

sahabat (S) : yati : nape wt muka sedih gitu.. senyum ckit..hehe
                   dhya' : hati kita xkn pernh sunyi sbb hati kta sentiasa bertaut antr satu sama lain w/p berjauhan.. 
sahabat (Y) : maaf shbt...jka ana xmsj kamu smua tp anda smua xpnh dlupakan
sahabat ( I ) : eeeee rindu2 tahap gaban,insya allah kita semua faham keadaan kita sekarang... Allah juga yang atur kehidupan kita cenggini.. hhuhuu..sarah ada pogram untuk kita semua dari pagi sampai malam... yati driver..

sahabat (Y) :
 
Aku (D) :  Bila dpt brckap cm gini, hati berbunga-bunga..biarpun tnpa mlihat wajah shbt sume..btol tu...hati tetap brsma.. kak ib..stuju sgt rindu thap gaban tu... miss u all so much..


Blablablablablabla............

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Ini je yang dapat kami lakukan untuk lepaskan rindu masing2...x dapat jumpe..meskipun dgn cara ini je nmun kami tetap cuba utk sntiasa brhubung antara satu sma lain agar ukhwah kami ini sntiasa mekar....Alhamdulillah meskipun dah hampir 5 tahun terpisah, namun ukhwah kami makin utuh.. Hubungan yang dibina kerana Allah, Insya-Allah akan terus terbina..

Meskipun kadang2 tu terasa sunyi tnpa mereka..almaklum la kan, xpernah berjauhan..selalu berempat je..buat apa2 pun berempat..pergi mana2 pun berempat..tpi utk 5 tahun ni, sumenye sorg2.. x mungkin SYID dpt diganti dgn y lain..

Doaku buat SYID, moga ukhwah kita sentiasa dalam redho Allah..

* skrg ni tgah cuba utk jadi cam dulu..Alhamdulillah stakat ni dah dapat dah..cuba kembali beraktiviti sprti dulu...pergi mana2 sorang2..makan pun sorang2...walaupun ada kwan y cakap, berdua itu lebih baik dari bersorangan..tpi xpe..sbb Allah tahu ape niat kita y sebenarnye...

senyap...diam...fikir...buat... (^__^)

Memahami, Bertolak ansur, Sabar penting dalam sebuah perhubungan

Dialog di bawah ni dihantar oleh seorang rakan chat sya yang tinggal di New Zealand.. Tentang perbualannya dengan salah seorang rakan chat nye..

This is one of the chats with an Indonasian Muslim woman who was feeling lonely and got addicted with internet chat with other men. Her husband works bit far, so she miss him often.

Things became so worse that she addicted to the chat for 24hrs with men worldwide.

The girl name is given as “Maryati”.

Maryati: Ok back.. His normal nature is friendly.. Sometimes humoris

Rabi: good

Rabi: wr is ramli?

Maryati: Go to his office/mess

Rabi: ok but today is off ?

Maryati: in his office.. No dayoff..  Bcz its still a project

Rabi: ow ok

Maryati: Yaa..

Rabi: Maryati....

Maryati: Yes.. Rabi..

Rabi: plz don wory, these issues are very common among couples

Maryati: yes.. Rabi.. I just think that why he seems not understand what i want..what i should do..

Rabi: in the modern society.., many couples solve this problem by having extra marital relations. But for true muslims this is haram, the society is now mostly  immoral, extramarital affair has become a fashion

Maryati: Yes rabi..Thats true

Rabi: Shaitan always try to turn the attraction of husband to other women, even though his wife is so cute, he feel attraction even to other ugly women, this will happen to wife as well, shaitan plays on her to turn her focus to other men, even though her hubby is sufficiently handsome, she feels attraction in other men.This is a testing form Allah

Maryati: Yes rabi.. U r right

Rabi: actually in this world there is always a fighting between influence of shaitan and wishes of Allah. a true muslim.. when he tries to live according to the wishes of Allah, shaitan comes to attack him. But if he/she is strong in faith, shaitan will fail but if we r weak, shaitan dominates

Maryati: Yes..

Rabi: we can see.. one example couples express extreme romance before their legal marriage, right?

Maryati: Yes rabi..U r right

Rabi: actually this is effect of shaitan because premarital romance is haram

Maryati: Yes..

Rabi: shaitan always put attraction in haram but after the marriage the degree of romance comes down because romance after marriage is ibadah (worship), shaitan always put boring in Ibadah

Maryati: Hmmm.. Yes..

Rabi: at the same time hubby may enjoy romance with another woman, it is influence of shaitan, he may be attracted towards illicit relationm same thing happens to wife as well

Maryati: Yeah

Rabi: That is y Prophet says to husbands ... if you are attracted to any  woman other than ur wife.., suddenly rush towards to your wife and fulfil your desires. this is the way of protecting us from Sahaitan. same thing is applicable to wives as well

Maryati: Hmmm..ok..

Rabi: I am slowly coming to your problem. please be patient with me

Maryati: Yes.. Rabi.. I'm listening

Rabi: did you understand what i discussed now?

Maryati: Yes.. i got it.There is an influence of syaitan..

Rabi: in short..., there is always some attraction to haram and boring in Halal

Maryati: Yes..

Rabi: this is testing from Allah. Allah wants to check us whether we are attracted to haram or not but one thing is surely promised by Prohet..SAW. if we stick on to halal and try to avoid haram, shaitan will surely fail and Allah will give taste, interest and pleasure in doing halal. That is the real enjoyment of life but the modern society is not not experiencing that enjoyment, they are still running behind shaitanic enjoyment. you know ... we feel some sort of itching sensation when we have some wound on our body, right?

Maryati: Right

Rabi: especially when the wound becomes dry means at the curing stage. we feel itching, right?

Maryati: Yes..

Rabi: if we itch.... we feel very nice, right?

Maryati: Yes

Rabi: but doctors prohibit us from itching, and advise us to apply medicine but if we apply medicine.., we feel pain, u agree? we feel pain when we apply some cream on the wound, same time we feel pleasure  if we do itching

Maryati: Yes.. U r right

Rabi: but medicine is the ultimate solution to the wound. and itching causes wound to become more worse and may lead to further operation

Maryati: Yes..

Rabi: adopting medicine is the example of doing halal... and adopting itching is the example to doing haram

Maryati: Yes.. I got it

Rabi: modern society is now enjoying itching, they are not ready to adopt medicine coz they say that they feel pain

Maryati: Yes

Rabi: but one day they will realize when they see the people who used medicine living in  peace and they are still suffering from complicated wound. this is what we see today, all pious and Islamic people are in peace but the so called modernists are under the grip of many many problems. they simply hide their problems thinking of their image in the society

Maryati: Yes

Rabi: so.., the lack of interest of your hubby on you is nothing but a shaitanic influence, like the lack of interest in any other ibadah like solat

Maryati: Hmm...

Rabi: it is not because you are not pretty or sexy, it is only shaitanic effect. but now we need to think..., how we can solve it, that is important for us, right?...

Maryati: Yaa..

Rabi: when we think about solution...there are two sides, one is husband side, other is wife side.you can focus only on wife side solution. husband side solution is not in ur control. as a wife..., how best u can contribute to the solution, let us see that

Maryati: yes rabi..

Rabi: I think todays lesson is enough

Ramli: Ermmm..

Rabi: please try to save the chat, so u can recollect the points later

Maryati: Oh .. I cant save it rabi... Bcz.. I'm on mobile But i already save it on my mind.. I hope its can help..

Rabi: I will save it and send to you

Rabi: in word file

Maryati: Ok.. Thank u rabi..U r soo kind

Rabi: so this topic we will continue tomorow

Maryati: Ok..Thank u for ur time.. Rabi..

Rabi: let us thank Allah for giving this chance to discuss on islam Alhamdulillah, we are doing ibadah

Ramli: Alhamdulillahi rabbil alamin

Note: Alhamdulillah she is now very close to Allah, she stopped all chattings with men, and deleted all her fotos from facebook, and yahoo profile. Few days back she told.. she can now sleep well without any chat (previously, it was not possible for her to pass nights without online chat with men). She also started reciting holy Quran daily morning, and avoided all sexy dresses when he goes to office. Let us pray for her and all other sisters who face similar problems.

Kesimpulannye, dalam hal rumahtangga ni : Kesabaran, kejujuran, keikhlasan, memahami, bertolak ansur dan sebagainya amat penting demi sebuah keutuhan hubungan yang di bina.. mencari teman di saat kesepian di alam maya, bukanlah satu jalan yang baik untuk menyelesaikan sesuatu permasalah mahupun untuk menghiburkan hati yang terluka..Kembali pada Allah...itulah jalan yang terbaik.. elakkan dari berlaku curang..Banyakkan mengadu pada Allah..Insya-Allah dipermudahkan Allah akan segala hal.. cari lah sesuatu yang memberi ketenangan yang berpanjangan kepada kita bukan nye yang untuk seketika sahaja..KEMBALI KEPADA ALLAH...

kepada rakan chat saya ini, terima kasih atas perkongsiannye...dan saya minta maaf atas ketidaksempatan utk bertemu dengan anda semasa keberadaan anda di Malaysia tempoh hari... :)